My first 7 steps.

Step no 1. Forgive the darkness. It is as greedy as the light. Forgive the darkness in you. And in others. 

Step no. 2 Be a Phoenix. Die at least once. Then choose to rise and blossom in a totally different way.

Step no 3. Be grateful. Nothing is ever lost and you are never alone. Anyone who's ever loved you or was kind to you, old lovers, ancestors, long gone or still unknown...all wait for you to call them. They can give you guidance, support and remind you of what you are. Can you feel them now?

Step no. 4. Let yourself go. Let yourself flow. Live effortlessly. It will all come to you. The mountain is ready to move, for you are the sun. Let it happen.

Step no. 5. Close your eyes. Breathe. Meet God. Smile when you remember everything. Come back. Enjoy this ride.

Step no. 6. Stand still. Shut up for a while. There is so much more than you can see. Let the pieces of the puzzle fit so perfectly.

Step no. 7. Don't forget you created wonderland for yourself. Now go, play!